You Make Me Feel Like Dancing

I have one of the best tour managers around, Mr Chris Farnsworth. He’s the nuts and bolts of my touring operation. Chris is smart and talented, and an all around great guy to tour with. But one of the things I know he didn’t expect to be a part of his job description was the madness of having twin toddlers on the road. I’m hard enough to take care of (*wink*), but it’s a whole ‘notha level with kids on the bus. But he doesn’t complain. He carts the extra luggage around and has even taken out a poopy diaper. Haven’t gotten him to change one yet, but I’m working on it – haha! Seriously, this guy has worked with some of the biggest names in Christian music, but he’ll still call around to see if there’s a playround at the local McDonald’s.

What about you? When you’re asked to serve, what is your response? Do you say yes, even when it’s below your “pay grade” and requires you to clean up somebody else’s…poop? (for lack of a better word-teehee) Believe me, this is not something I have mastered. Especially given the nature of my job, people are doing things for me all of the time. It’s very easy to get used to someone serving me. But we are called to serve others.

Ouch. That’s a tough one. Oh sure, it’s easy to give lip service to helping the needy and being an advocate for the down-trodden. But what about serving those who are not easy to serve? What about helping someone else get ahead, even if it keeps us from advancing? What about serving in secret, even when it means getting no credit or recognition? Read how Paul puts it in Philippians 2:

“If you’ve gotten anything at all out of following Christ, if his love has made any difference in your life, if being in a community of the Spirit means anything to you, if you have a heart, if you care— then do me a favor: Agree with each other, love each other, be deep-spirited friends. Don’t push your way to the front; don’t sweet-talk your way to the top. Put yourself aside, and help others get ahead. Don’t be obsessed with getting your own advantage. Forget yourselves long enough to lend a helping hand.” (The Message)

Serving can sometimes be adventurous and exciting. Often times serving can be monotonous, mundane and may even feel like what we’re doing is “beneath” us. But in the end, it’s always fulfilling, because we’re doing what we were created to do. The above video, as silly as it may be, illustrates my point. My sweet tour manager does whatever he can to make my life easier, even if it’s not in his job description. And his simple little phone call brought a dance of joy out of my daughter, Gracie. And bringing that joy to her, brought joy to him. That’s one of the many benefits of being a servant. Bringing joy to other’s is quite rewarding. It may even make someone feel like dancing. Careful, it may make you feel like dancing. ;-)

Pray this with me:
Help me, Lord. Help me to serve, expecting nothing in return. Help me to find opportunities to promote others, even if it keeps me in the shadows and puts the spotlight on someone else. Because ultimately, when I choose to live this way, it puts the spotlight on You. Remind us all that’s it’s about making YOU famous. Amen.

  • http://www.saddlepotatoes.blogspot.com geri litzen

    What a great post and great reminder. Love it! Good thing for you that you have found such a gem to work with. God bless you!

  • http://twitter.com/Addicted2Guard Jessica Feeley

    Wow- well said and beautifully written. Definitely something I always need to be reminded of, and something I will reference to in the future. Can you be bored more often? =]

    <33 Jessica

  • http://www.bernardshuford.com Bernard Shuford

    The thing I like to “see” most is a “big name” like yourself really doing service that is invisible. Now, I know that’s an oxymoron, but my point is this – it really doesn’t impress me for Michelle Obama to serve the homeless at a local soup kitchen when hundreds of cameras are watching. My question is – does she serve her kids and those she sees every day, or does she only serve when it’s a photo op? I have no idea that she does or doesn’t, but my point is that true service is often never recognized. My gentle, friendly challenge to you would be to cultivate the spirit of service by doing service that no one will ever know about. That’s a true servants heart. Don’t serve to get glory. Serve in order to be like Christ so that HE gets the glory.

  • Kesha M. Royster

    Life is truly about serving and yes, even if the spotlight doesn’t shine on us it will shine on Jesus and that matters the most that he gets all the glory and honor. Besides he said that he will exhault us in due season. God amazes me when he teaches us lessons in everyday life. The life of a servant isn’t always glamorous but’s it’s one that i found delight in….i love to see other smile *^ _ ^*

  • http://davidcintron.com David Cintron

    Farns is the man.

  • http://www.GodsAnvil.com Kelly (Race_12_1)

    Thank you for that. My husband who is a house sound director is sitting behind me and said “the real story of why tour managers are cranky all the time” but then again he works with secular bands all the time–so that’s a different story =)

    The small joys of a child and what some adults won’t do to give it to them. These are the things that will be their memories-the moments they will talk about. Their moments of joy.

    Serving others is about doing what will give them the thing that they need in their life at that moment-and that is exactly what Gracie got in that moment. She needed a moment of joy-she fairly obviously got that =)

  • haley hudson

    that is too cute natalie!i am going to try to have a smile on my face while serving others=D

  • Pastor Anthony Weston

    Iam a Pastor working with orphans and prisoners in Malawi Africa and on 01-07-09 I happene to listen to your cd and it was lovery and i saw your web and thought of writing you to get in touch and to know more about your projects about H.I.V/AIDS
    I wil be happy to hear from you
    Yours in His Service
    Anthony Weston

  • Phyllis Cornwell

    Natalie, I have seen you in concert and at Revolve and Women of Faith many times and I have read your book. You amaze me. You are a down to earth person that loves God. You are so filled with the Lord and you let his light shine. I could listen to you everyday which is why I never miss an oppurntiy to see you. You have a great ministry and you are living what you are singing and talking about. You are serving God’s children all over the world. You are Making it Matter and challenging us to do the same. God is smiling down on you and through you, Girlfreind. We should live our life for Christ every minute of everyday. This blog was just you sitting down and telling a story about your manager and girls and it reminded you of our calling. Which is what it is all about. If you are living your life for God and you are in the word, you will recognize his word and will being lived out around you. But you will also see the needs and feel a calling to do something about it. You do this and challege us to keep moving on ourselves. Praise God.

  • Mandy

    aww! how sweet!
    you definitely have some cute little girls, natalie. :)
    love the dance!

  • http://www.TheShoppingPoint.com Sabrina

    Great post! We all need to hear that at one point! It’s all about ultimately giving God the glory!

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  • natalie grant fans 12348

    he had to take care of a poopy diaper! wow ! jeremiah 29:11: For i know the plans i have for you says the lord plans to prosper you and not to destroy plans for hope and a future.
    ymmas

  • *RACH*

    wow that was good